Thursday, June 11, 2009

A very sad week


Saturday evening we got the news that my husbands brother died. He was only 38 years old. He had a 2 year old son that lived with him and his girlfriend.He was camping with friends and drinking (a lot) Saturday afternoon. he hung him self from a tree. He didn't leave a note and no one knows why he did this. Nothing make sense and everything just seems backwards. His girlfriend who was camping called his parents. They couldn't understand him so they drove there to see what was wrong. The mom debbie saw her son as paramedics was cutting down her son. When they came her to tell us. Just looking at debbie made my heart hurt. She was in pieces. Today was the funeral. We visited every day but today is the last day. We took our youngest son with us every time. He is three i didn t tell him anything, he is so young and he didn't ask. Today on the way to the funeral with all the kids i told andrew we were seeing uncle scott again . he said david, daivd, (our oldest) uncle scott is sleeping.
The picture is left side my husband steve and baby Andrew, right side Scott with his baby Caleb.
We all loved him so much and he will be missed deeply.We still dont have a clue why he did what he did.

18 comments:

always_317537 said...

O MY GOSH! I am so sorry. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

auntrene said...

My Sympathy and prayers are with your family.

Carolyn G said...

I am so sorry. YOu and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mama Dawg said...

I am sooooooooo sorry for your loss.

Nanette said...

I am so sorry for your loss.

Beth said...

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You will be in my thoughts daily.

Diane said...

i'm sorry to hear this. my oldest daughter suffers from mental illness and has attempted suicide several times. thank god she has not been successful. this is heartbreaking.

my thought are with you and your family.

~Thought's By Dena~ said...

hugz to you at this time

Kathy-Catnip Studio said...

I am so sorry for this tragic loss to you and your family.

Danetta said...

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and sympathy go out to you and your family. *HUGS*

Julie said...

I am so very sorry about this tremendous loss. I will be praying for you and your family during this difficult time.

Jessie Lynn said...

Bless you and your family. My prayers are with you.

Jessie Lynn

Michelle said...

I'm SO SO Sorry. My condolences.

Over Coffee - the green edition said...

I am so very sorry for your lose. I can’t even imagine what you must be going through. I will keep you and your family in our thoughts.

Spamgirl said...

Life never makes sense but a death like this makes even less sense. I'm sorry for your loss!

Celeste said...

Oh my goodness! This just breaks my heart! I can not even begin to imagine what you all are going through - my prayers are with you and your family

one frugal lady said...

So sorry for your loss, that is so tragic. Our neighbor's son, who just graduated from high school killed himself 2 days ago as well. Our neighbors blame themselves because they feel like they should have known. I don't think most people see these things coming though. Best of luck to you and your family!
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Janet and Maya said...

I'm so sorry to read your story. Hugs and prayers for your family.